1. My life is not my own.
This includes my time (that's the hardest one for me), my plans, my children, my home, my finances, my possessions, my body, etc. Everything I have or am is a gift from Him. I am to offer myself to Him to use as He desires. I realize this probably sounds trite and unoriginal. It certainly has been for me when I'm the Christian on her soap box declaring truths that I've yet to be challenged on. It sounds so good doesn't it? Especially when I'm just viewing it as "big picture"... However, when I'm slapped in the face with circumstances that require me to set aside my plans in order to accomplish His (often unclear) purpose for me, that's another story.
It's hard to "deny yourself" a snide remark or rude comment toward the police officer who's being less-than-professional with you when you are driving all over Washington D.C. on vacation in order for your son to get a root canal. It's not easy to "put aside your own interests" when you just want to sleep in and your more-than-capable children need you to get up and direct their day. Who has no problem saying no to the movie or TV show that's definitely not what you'd be watching with Jesus in the room? Or the kids asking for an ice cream treat from Dairy Queen (again) while you're on a long drive and don't really have the money but you want one too? What happens when the plans that God has for me cut into my "free" time? What about when I have a few hours to get some laundry done and run some errands, but a friend has a personal emergency and I know He wants me to drop everything to help? What if maintaining my monthly tithe means waiting to buy school supplies even though the best sale is now? What does it mean to "empty yourself" and "look to the interests of others" when the errands you are running take 3 times as long as expected and you make your husband late for a meeting so he's irritated with you and you come home and the house you had in order is now not and the children are sitting in front of the television playing video games? It's strange to realize that, while you are someone who's usually quite spontaneous, the spontaneity of this summer is kicking your butt! It's difficult to keep your temper (let alone "offer your body as a living sacrifice") when the house is a disaster, the kids are fighting, the refrigerator is empty, the phone is ringing, the bills are unpaid, the laundry is piled up, you're late on your way out the door to an event you don't want to go to, and the bags are packed and waiting to be loaded into the van for the next trip you're not quite ready for (welcome to my summer!)
Then Jesus said to His disciples,
"If anyone wishes to come after Me,
he must deny himself,
and take up his cross and follow Me."
(Matthew 16:24)
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy,
to offer your bodies as living sacrifices,
holy and pleasing to God... (Romans 12:1)
Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit,
but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves;
do not merely look out for your own personal interests,
but also for the interests of others.
Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus who...
emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant...(Philippians 2:3-5, 7)
"If anyone wishes to come after Me,
he must deny himself,
and take up his cross and follow Me."
(Matthew 16:24)
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy,
to offer your bodies as living sacrifices,
holy and pleasing to God... (Romans 12:1)
Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit,
but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves;
do not merely look out for your own personal interests,
but also for the interests of others.
Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus who...
emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant...(Philippians 2:3-5, 7)
Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit,
who is in you, whom you have received from God?
You are not your own; you were bought at a price.
Therefore, honor God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
Many are the plans in a man's heart,
but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails. (Proverbs 19:21)
who is in you, whom you have received from God?
You are not your own; you were bought at a price.
Therefore, honor God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
Many are the plans in a man's heart,
but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails. (Proverbs 19:21)
2. God wants me TOTALLY dependent on Him.
Again this all sounds good, maybe cliche, but good. What if the life Jesus has for me isn't something I think I can handle? What if I don't even like it? That's where the dependence comes in.
I used to be someone who really felt like I pretty much did a good job at most of the things I wanted to do a good job at. If I wasn't good at it, I didn't do it. Then I became a mother, and couldn't quit that even though I often feel like a complete failure at it. That's when God began teaching me this lesson. I'm not really depending on Him at all if I can keep it all under control. He has stripped me of that control in so many ways. (I'd love to discuss these specifics personally with anyone who'd want to.) Every single one of those ways was uncomfortable at the very least and extremely painful a lot of the time. In fact, I'm more broken now (or maybe just more aware of how broken I've been all along) than ever. Yet, it's a peaceful place to be. Why? Because my God is a good God and He loves me!
Because I'm more aware of my need for Him than ever!
I guess this is what I've concluded is the "why" behind all of the crazy circumstances this summer. I really believe that this is His main purpose in all of our lives - that we would see our NEED of Him - not just for my salvation but for my continuous walk with Him. If I have a life that is easily lived apart from dependence on Him, it's really not the life He's called me to live.
Let me just say, while this summer was crazy, I don't think it was wrong. I don't look back on this summer and think, "We've got to do that differently next year." I really believe the trips we planned (whether they actually went according to plan or not) were exactly what we should have been doing. When we were home, there were hardly any days that were "ordinary", stay-at-home-and-enjoy-summer-vacation days - and that was NOT according to plan. Yet almost every day we had commitments, extra children, respite care, preparation for the next trip, etc. Yet, I don't think that was wrong either. I hear a lot about "margin" and "boundaries" in today's secular and Christian world. How it's "healthy" to have margin. I'm definitely not a person who wants to fill every minute of the day with something - that actually stresses me out. I LOVE blank calendar pages! Yet, my life this summer (and so far this fall) hasn't had much margin. Is it because I'm not in the center of God's will for my life? Maybe...but maybe not. I can live my life trying to control my circumstances, or I can obey and depend on God in the midst of what He throws my way. (This is not to say there's not a right way to live. A life of following the Lord is full of moral absolutes. But when it comes to the details - things that are morally neutral - margin or no margin - I think there's room in a Christian's life for seasons of both.) My best-laid plans need to be able to be nixed at a moment's notice (if that's what He wants). I need to be ready to offer my home, $, possessions, and time for His purposes.
Let me just say, while this summer was crazy, I don't think it was wrong. I don't look back on this summer and think, "We've got to do that differently next year." I really believe the trips we planned (whether they actually went according to plan or not) were exactly what we should have been doing. When we were home, there were hardly any days that were "ordinary", stay-at-home-and-enjoy-summer-vacation days - and that was NOT according to plan. Yet almost every day we had commitments, extra children, respite care, preparation for the next trip, etc. Yet, I don't think that was wrong either. I hear a lot about "margin" and "boundaries" in today's secular and Christian world. How it's "healthy" to have margin. I'm definitely not a person who wants to fill every minute of the day with something - that actually stresses me out. I LOVE blank calendar pages! Yet, my life this summer (and so far this fall) hasn't had much margin. Is it because I'm not in the center of God's will for my life? Maybe...but maybe not. I can live my life trying to control my circumstances, or I can obey and depend on God in the midst of what He throws my way. (This is not to say there's not a right way to live. A life of following the Lord is full of moral absolutes. But when it comes to the details - things that are morally neutral - margin or no margin - I think there's room in a Christian's life for seasons of both.) My best-laid plans need to be able to be nixed at a moment's notice (if that's what He wants). I need to be ready to offer my home, $, possessions, and time for His purposes.
Again this all sounds good, maybe cliche, but good. What if the life Jesus has for me isn't something I think I can handle? What if I don't even like it? That's where the dependence comes in.
I used to be someone who really felt like I pretty much did a good job at most of the things I wanted to do a good job at. If I wasn't good at it, I didn't do it. Then I became a mother, and couldn't quit that even though I often feel like a complete failure at it. That's when God began teaching me this lesson. I'm not really depending on Him at all if I can keep it all under control. He has stripped me of that control in so many ways. (I'd love to discuss these specifics personally with anyone who'd want to.) Every single one of those ways was uncomfortable at the very least and extremely painful a lot of the time. In fact, I'm more broken now (or maybe just more aware of how broken I've been all along) than ever. Yet, it's a peaceful place to be. Why? Because my God is a good God and He loves me!
And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. (1John 4:16)
This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down His life for us. (1John 3:16)
...not that we loved God,
but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. (1John 4:10)
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him,
who have been called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28)
Because I can trust Him. Everything I wrote about in #1 is completely impossible for me in and of myself. I put most of those examples in there as things I've failed in doing. Yet He is at work in me!
God is love. (1John 4:16)
This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down His life for us. (1John 3:16)
...not that we loved God,
but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. (1John 4:10)
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him,
who have been called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28)
Because I can trust Him. Everything I wrote about in #1 is completely impossible for me in and of myself. I put most of those examples in there as things I've failed in doing. Yet He is at work in me!
...being confident of this, that He who began a good work in (me)
will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6)
...for it is God who is at work in (me), both to will and to work for His good pleasure. (Phil. 2:13)
And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness."
Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses,
so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
Therefore I am well content with weaknesses,...with distresses,...with difficulties,
for Christ's sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong. (2Cor. 12:9-10)
will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6)
...for it is God who is at work in (me), both to will and to work for His good pleasure. (Phil. 2:13)
And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness."
Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses,
so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
Therefore I am well content with weaknesses,...with distresses,...with difficulties,
for Christ's sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong. (2Cor. 12:9-10)
Because I'm more aware of my need for Him than ever!
I am the vine, you are the branches;
he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit,
for apart from Me you can do nothing. (John 15:6)
he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit,
for apart from Me you can do nothing. (John 15:6)
God is faithful! The Word of the Lord stands because of the God who stands behind His Word!
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